Things not to do in friendship: To make a relation evergreen

Posted by admin on December 6, 2010

In the age of internet, a number of social networking sites are there present like twitter, Facebook or Orkut but they are not the substitute of a real friend similarly  We are having a number of relations but certain relations are like the assets, a true friendship is one of them.  All the relations we get are blood related but the only relation which is not related to blood is friendship. A friend is chosen by us and if we are lucky enough to get a true friend then we must thank god because true friends are the gift of the God.

A true friend is always there with his helping hands at the time of difficulties. They give us advice to overcome obstacles in the life and protect us from harm. There are certain times in the life when we feel completely loneliness and broken at that time the importance of a true friend is realized.

Sometimes knowingly or unknowingly we conduct certain mistakes that hurt our loved ones. It may be our behavior or some actions that may hurt our dear ones. A friend has a lot of expectations and if you are not meeting them then really you are making harm to your friendship. There are certain limitations with every relation and same is the case with friendship.

When your friend is in need never avoid him by giving excuses. At the time of need always be with him. It is said, “A friend in need is a friend in deed”. Secondly, publicly never make fun of your’s friend weak point because this will hurt his sentiments. As everyone has some weak and some strong point but one thing can be done that you can give advice him when no one is there. Thirdly, say a big no to the backbiting. In normal life also backbiting is always considered a bad human behavior.

Apart from these there are some other limitations also like never misbehave with your’s friend family. Never betray or cheat your friend. Never argue when your friend is depressed.  You understand your friend well then never do those activities which are not liked by him but if he is going in a wrong direction then make him understand in a polite way.